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Week 2 of 4The Visibility Playbook

Talking about your work

The read (3 minutes)

Here is the distinction that changes this whole subject: bragging is performing. An update is informing. "I'm amazing" is a performance. "The migration finished two days early and support tickets dropped by a third" is information your manager needs and can repeat in rooms you are not in. Nobody calls the second one bragging, because it isn't about you. It is about the work.

The update email is the single highest-return visibility move that exists for the time it takes. Three lines, sent on a schedule, to the person who most needs to be able to repeat your value. The first time feels a little strange. After that it becomes what it actually is: part of doing the job well.

This week you write one and send it. The script does the heavy lifting; your work supplies the facts. And if the reply is short, or doesn't come, that is not a verdict. Silence is normal on informational email. You are building a record, not fishing for applause.

This week's moves

120 min

Draft the update email, today. Use script 1. Facts from your wins log. Recipient: your manager, or the stakeholder from your five-name map if they're the bigger gap.

25 min

Send it. Pick the day, morning is better, and send. Do not soften it back down before sending. Check it once against script 3.

310 min

Say one win out loud. Once this week, in a 1:1 or a hallway answer to "how's it going," use script 4 instead of "busy, you know."

Script bank

Word for word, ready to use. Edit any script to make it yours, then copy it.

1.The update email

Subject: "Quick update on [project]." Body: "Wanted to keep you in the loop on [project]. [Result, with a number or a concrete outcome]. Next up: [what's next]. Anything you'd want me to adjust?" Four sentences, no apology for sending it.

2.The "what are you working on" answer

"I'm on [project]. The interesting part is [one specific detail]. If it lands, it should mean [result] by [rough when]."

3.The result line that isn't bragging

Formula: thing + number + who noticed. "[Thing] is done. [Result or number]. [Name] flagged that it [impact]." If you can't find the number, use the before-and-after: "It used to take X. It now takes Y."

4.The spoken win

"Small win worth mentioning: [result]. The part I'm glad about is [why it matters to the team]." Then stop talking. Don't take it back with "but it was nothing."

5.The private-praise bridge

When praise arrives in private: "Thank you, that genuinely helps to hear. Would you be open to mentioning it to [name]? It's relevant to [the project or the next role], and it carries more coming from you."

Friday debrief prompts

Your Friday email carries the reply template. These are the prompts inside it.

  1. What did you send, and to whom?
  2. What came back? (Silence counts as an answer. Write "silence" if so, and how it sat with you.)
  3. What will you change in the next one?

Your self-score: Week 2

Score each statement from 1 (not true) to 5 (true).

People beyond my manager could name what I'm working on right now.
1123455
I can state my last win in one sentence without shrinking it.
1123455
I said something in a meeting this week that wasn't a status update.
1123455
My wins from the last month are written down where I can find them.
1123455
Re-entry note

Missed week 1? Don't go back. Do this week's move 1 and 2, then borrow week 1's move #1 (the wins log) over the weekend.

Print this week (one-pager + script cards)

<strong>Next week:</strong> speaking up in meetings, and keeping your name attached to your ideas.

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